Vigil.  Image by George Stojkovic via freedigitalphotos.net

Vigil. Image by George Stojkovic via freedigitalphotos.net

According to dictionary.com, filicide is

  1. a person who kills his or her son or daughter
  2. the act of killing one’s son or daughter

ASAN, the Autistic Self Advocacy Network, is offering an anti-filicide toolkit. It’s both horrifying and necessary. In fact, according to ASAN, since 2010, more than 70 people have been murdered by their parents.

“A parent kills their disabled child. The media portrays these murders as justifiable and inevitable due to the “burden” of having a disabled person in the family. If the parent stands trial, they are given sympathy and comparatively lighter sentences, if they are sentenced at all. The victims are disregarded, blamed for their own murder at the hands of the person they should have been able to trust the most, and ultimately forgotten.”

The advice in the toolkit is extremely helpful, but it’s also extremely sad. The fact that people have to be told that they should condemn the murder and mourn the victim…that it’s bad to imply that it’s better to be dead than disabled…that filicide should not be called ‘mercy-killing.’

Why do we need to tell people these things? Why isn’t this common knowledge?

Go and check out the ASAN page. Read their toolkit. Share it. Make it common knowledge.

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